Quote by Bertrand Russell

The fundamental defect with fathers is that they want their children to be a credit to them.


The fundamental defect with fathers is that they want their

Summary

This quote highlights a potential flaw in fathers' approach to parenthood. It suggests that fathers often have a significant desire for their children to reflect positively on their own reputation and achievements rather than focusing primarily on their children's own personal growth and individuality. This perspective implies a potential neglect of nurturing their children's independence and self-expression, emphasizing the importance of shifting the focus from parental ego to the child's well-being and individual development.

By Bertrand Russell
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