Quote by Samuel Butler

It is not he who gains the exact point in dispute who scores most in controversy -- but he who has shown the better temper.

It is not he who gains the exact point in dispute who scores

Summary

This quote suggests that winning an argument or debate does not depend on proving oneself correct, but rather on exhibiting good character and maintaining a calm demeanor. The person who can remain level-headed and composed, even amidst disagreements, is ultimately more successful in handling conflicts. It implies that controlling one's emotions and treating others with respect is more important than simply proving one's point, as it can lead to a more amicable resolution and positively impact relationships.

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Argument & Debate

By Samuel Butler

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