Quote by Oscar Wilde
But what is the good of friendship if one cannot say exactly what one means? Anybody can say charming things and try to please and to flatter, but a true friend always says unpleasant things, and does not mind giving pain. Indeed, if he is a really true friend he prefers it, for he knows that then he is doing good.
Summary
This quote highlights the importance of honesty and authenticity in true friendship. The speaker suggests that genuine friendship goes beyond pleasantries and flattery, as a true friend is willing to be honest, even if it means saying unpleasant things or causing temporary pain. This kind of friend places value on the greater good, understanding that honesty and constructive criticism can contribute to personal growth and strengthen the bond in the long run.
Topics
Friendship
By Oscar Wilde