Quote by Alfred Adler

In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must always suspect an opponent, and note who suffers most because of the patient's condition. Usually this is a member of the family.


In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must al

Summary

This quote suggests that when examining the unhealthy behaviors and patterns exhibited by an individual with a neurotic style of life, it is important to consider the presence of an adversary. The quote suggests that this adversary is often a family member who suffers the most due to the patient's condition. This hints at the idea that conflicts and problems within a family dynamic can contribute to the development and maintenance of neurotic behaviors in an individual.

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By Alfred Adler
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