Quote by Margot Asquith
To marry a man out of pity is folly; and, if you think you are going to influence the kind of fellow who has never had a chance, poor devil, you are profoundly mistaken. One can only influence the strong characters in life, not the weak; and it is the height of vanity to suppose that you can make an honest man of anyone.
Summary
This quote highlights the futility of entering into a marriage driven by pity or the belief that one can change an individual's character. It suggests that attempting to influence or reform someone lacking opportunities or with weak character is destined to fail. Only strong individuals can be influenced, and it is arrogant to assume the power to transform someone's fundamental nature or make them virtuous. Hence, the quote warns against the foolishness of marrying for the wrong reasons or having unrealistic expectations about changing someone's inherent qualities.