Quote by Elizabeth Bowen

Nobody can be kinder than the narcissist while you react to life in his own terms.

Nobody can be kinder than the narcissist while you react to

Summary

This quote suggests that when you conform to the narcissistic individual's perspective or way of approaching life, they can appear to be very kind and accommodating. However, it implies that this apparent kindness is solely dependent on how you respond to their desires and expectations. In other words, their kindness is conditional and stems from their self-centered view of the world. This quote underscores the idea that narcissists' kindness is not genuine or sincere, but rather a manipulation tactic motivated by their own interests.

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Vanity

By Elizabeth Bowen

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