Quote by James Hillman

Psychotherapy theory turns it all on you: you are the one who is wrong. If a kid is having trouble or is discouraged, the problem is not just inside the kid it's also in the system, the society.

Psychotherapy theory turns it all on you: you are the one wh

Summary

This quote reflects the perspective that psychotherapy theory places the focus of blame and responsibility on the individual seeking therapy. Instead of assuming that the individual is solely at fault for their struggles or discouragement, the quote suggests that the root of the issue may lie not only within the individual but also within the larger societal context or system they are a part of. It implies that understanding and addressing the broader societal factors that contribute to an individual's difficulties is crucial for effective therapy.

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By James Hillman

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