Quote by Iyanla Vanzant

We really don't know how to love each other because we haven't really learned to love ourselves. In many instances, not all, it's not malicious. We've just been conditioned to such bad behavior.

We really don't know how to love each other because we haven

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This quote suggests that our ability to love others is hindered by our lack of self-love. It implies that we haven't been taught how to truly love ourselves, which in turn affects our relationships with others. It acknowledges that our negative behavior may not always be intentional but rather a result of societal conditioning. By highlighting the need for self-love and acknowledging the impact of conditioning, the quote emphasizes the importance of personal growth and introspection in cultivating healthier and more loving relationships.

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By Iyanla Vanzant

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