Quote by Joshua Wolf Shenk, What Makes Us

Seeing a defense is easier than changing it. Only with patience and tenderness might a person surrender his barbed armor for a softer shield. Perhaps in this lies the key to the good lifehttp://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200906/happiness

Seeing a defense is easier than changing it. Only with patie

Summary

This quote suggests that it is easier to observe and understand someone's defensive behavior than it is to actually change it. It emphasizes the need for patience and tenderness when trying to help someone let go of their defensive barriers and embrace a softer, more vulnerable approach. By surrendering the protective armor and adopting a more gentle shield, individuals may find the key to experiencing a fulfilling and happy life. The quote highlights the importance of empathy and understanding in fostering personal growth and nurturing meaningful connections with others.

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By Joshua Wolf Shenk, What Makes Us

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