Quote by Oscar Wilde

It is perfectly monstrous the way people go about nowadays saying things against one, behind one's back, that are absolutely and entirely true.

It is perfectly monstrous the way people go about nowadays s

Summary

This quote reflects the speaker's frustration with people discussing negative and truthful things about someone behind their back. The speaker finds it "monstrous" because it implies that others are speaking the truth but without the speaker's awareness or opportunity to defend themselves. The quote suggests that being criticized in private, even if the criticism is accurate, is unfair and morally wrong. It highlights the speaker's desire for honesty and authenticity in interpersonal communication instead of hidden criticisms.

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