Quote by Stephen Dunn

Altruism is for thosewho can't endure their desires.There's a worldas ambiguous as a moan,a pleasure moanour earnest neighborsmight think a crime.It's where we could live.I'll say I love you,Which will lead, of course,to disappointment,but those words unsaidpoison every next moment.I will try to disappoint youbetter than anyone else has.--Mon Semblable

Altruism is for thosewho can't endure their desires.There's

Summary

This quote suggests that altruism is only adopted by those who are unable to control their own desires. It describes a world filled with indistinctness and sensual pleasure that may be perceived as criminal by society. The speaker acknowledges the inevitable disappointment that declaring love may bring, yet emphasizes that not expressing these feelings would poison future moments. They express a willingness to surpass all previous disappointments, implying a desire to forge a unique bond and relationship. Overall, the quote challenges conventional notions of altruism and delves into the complexities of desires, love, and disappointment.

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Love Pleasure Disappointment

By Stephen Dunn

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