Quote by Shannon L. Alder

When we want to see someone in a certain way, we find a way, but when we don't we have to wake up and see who they truly are and not what our pain or anger chooses to believe.

When we want to see someone in a certain way, we find a way,

Summary

This quote emphasizes the tendency of our emotions and biases to shape our perception of others. It suggests that when we have a preconceived notion or desire about someone, we tend to find reasons and justifications to support that view. However, it also encourages us to be introspective and aware of our own pain or anger clouding our judgment. It reminds us to approach others with open eyes and see them as they truly are, separate from our personal struggles and biases.

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By Shannon L. Alder

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